There was a guy today who had a wife. He said I had turned him on so much I had sent him into orbit. Of course I was flattered. But it is also important to know why that is so hot.Many guys, act straight all day. But deep down have deep dark attractions to men. Because of the environment they have grown up in, it is not allowed. Or they have been pressured into finding a wife by their parents.Many married men feel great shame and curiosity about these desires. Well… guess what? That is perfectly normal.It is ok to have these feelings. And it is ok to explore them. In fact in can be very very hot. Unloading years of untapped sexual energy can make you feel totally alive!Gay webcam chat like Flirt4Free is a safe way of doing that. You can privately message attractive men (like myself, :P) and watch me jacking off. You can indulge your fantasies in dirty conversations. And nobody ever needs to know.You can go back to your normal life, wife and family and just have this as a secret naughty hobby.Longer term, if you think you are gay then the truth will need to come out. You may have a much happier relationship with a man. You might need to break off with your wife. However, that is completely up to you. I would never pressure you either way.But while you are curious about your sexuality, or just want to keep it on the side – then gay webcam shows are safe, healthy way to do it.